I like being able to do things myself.
I like to begin a project and see it to completion.
I don't like it when my project is dependent upon someone else for part of it.
I need to make some changes to Mom's room while she is visiting my sister. Time is a BIG factor. But, before I can do my part, Mister needs to do some major "lifting & heaving". He works hard; he's tired at the end of the day. I know that. I understand that. When I have some major things I need done, I find that he responds better to a "Honey-Do" list, rather than to my nagging. Soooo, 5 days ago . . .
(Yay for us!)
This has worked for 44 years.
Hope the list still holds it's magic!