Have you ever felt the need to
let a friendship go?
As much as I love my friends,
and I DO LOVE MY FRIENDS,
I have one friendship that
really is not working.
I"ve pulled waaaay back,
over the course of a couple of years.
We live in different states so that's not
been terribly hard to do.
I don't want to "discuss" this with her
as I know it would turn to blame, denial,
and finger-pointing.
For a number of years we were "good friends",
but never "best friends".
I'd say we were a "7" on a scale of "10".
Still, she continues to email and sometimes
call my husband, wanting to know "why?".
She even text me last week, again.
We are talking about meeting for lunch
but, I really don't want to.
She manipulates me.
(and she's doing it again)
This is one reason the friendship
has failed.
She's a nice person.
I'm a nice person.
BUT,
time and circumstances have changed
and the things that once knit our
friendship together are gone.
Sad but true.
Have you ever been in a situation
such as this one?